When you fire up Baldur’s Gate 3—whether it’s your first run or you’re deep into your tenth—you’re not just picking your character’s looks, race, or class.
Oh no, you’re also choosing an origin story for your Charracter, and The Dark Urge (aka “Durge” to fans) is one of the most intriguing options.
Because this character isn’t just a regular hero; they come with a seriously bloody backstory that can twist the entire narrative.
If you choose to play as Durge, you’re in for a wild ride filled with unique dialogue, fresh cutscenes, and yeah, even some jaw-dropping romance options.
But here’s the thing—not all romance options are created equal when you’re playing as Durge.
In BG3, Some of the characters have deep, compelling arcs which seems like tied to your past, while others?
Well, they’re just along for the ride.
So, to help you out, I’ve ranked the best Dark Urge romances, from the “meh” to the ones that’ll keep you up at night thinking about pixelated love.
5. Karlach (Redeemed Durge Only)
Karlach is a She’s a ride-or-die companion who’s all about redemption. She’s been to literal Hell and back, so your bloody backstory doesn’t scare her one bit.
If you’re leaning into the “reformed villain” vibe with Durge, Karlach’s all-in, helping you claw your way out of the darkness with optimism and humor.
Her romance is one of the most warmest, especially during some key scenes in Act 2.
If you’re looking for someone who’ll laugh with you through the chaos, Karlach’s your gal.
4. Minthara (Embraced Durge Only)
Minthara’s romance is for those fully committed to the dark side.
She’s all about power, and if you embrace your violent urges, she’ll be right there with you, reveling in the carnage.
She’s impressed by Durge’s Slayer Form and loves the idea of ruling together as tyrants.
No soft redemption arc here—just pure evil power couple energy.
Her romance doesn’t have the same emotional depth as others, but if you’re going for villainy, Minthara fits the bill perfectly.
3. Lae’zel (Redeemed or Embraced)
Lae’zel doesn’t care if you’re a redeemed Durge or fully embracing your darker side—she just respects strength.
She can adapts to whatever path you take, making her one of the most romance choices for our beloved Durge.
So, Whether you’re fighting to break free from your bloodlust or leaning into it, Lae’zel’s got your back.
Our Lae’zel truely understands the struggle of living under a powerful, malevolent force, same as durge which makes her a solid choice for The Urge charracter.
2. Shadowheart (Redeemed or Embraced)
Shadowheart’s romance is an emotional rollercoaster no matter who you’re playing as, but it’s especially gripping with Durge.
Her own internal battle between light and darkness mirrors Durge’s, creating a love story that feels incredibly personal.
Whether you play as a redeemed Durge or fully embrace the evil, Shadowheart will walk that path with you, offering one of the most dynamic and emotional romances in the game.
1. Astarion (Redeemed or Embraced)
Now, Astarion? He’s the ultimate match for Durge, no contest.
His storyline deals with themes of control, trauma, and breaking free from a dark past—all of which fit perfectly with Durge’s arc.
Whether you’re embracing the evil or fighting to redeem yourself, Astarion’s romance feels the most natural and compelling.
He’s not just along for the ride; he gets Durge in a way the other companions don’t.
He’s the one who truly gets the bloodlust, the struggle to break free from chains, and so much more. Astarion and The Dark Urge share more similarities than you might think.
So, those are the best romance options for The Dark Urge!
If you enjoyed this article, you might also like my previous post, Why I Think The Dark Urge is the True Hero of Baldur’s Gate 3.
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